Joy Elizabeth Harrington on Instagram: "Porn didn’t ruin my marriage. And it wasn’t because I didn’t have boundaries. I was clear. I said what I needed. I told him what I wasn’t okay with. And I felt trapped because I couldn’t make him change. That’s where most women get stuck — because they’re told there are only two options: 1. Keep talking about it. Keep asking. Keep waiting. 2. Leave. Neither one creates change. Here’s what no one tells you: There is a third option. It’s not patience. It’s n